Emotions Are Real; Knowledge Is Not Real

by don Miguel Ruiz with Janet Mills

Before you learn to speak, your brain is like a perfect computer, but without a program. Once you learn a language, the program is introduced to you, mainly through your parents, as well as other people around you. They hook your attenti...

Using “The Four Agreements” in high school counseling

by Betsey McGuire

As a high school counselor with a caseload of around 550 students, I assist students with all kinds of issues. Along with the more routine responsibilities of helping kids choose classes, consider post-secondary options, and improve grades, a big part of my job is to atte...

Your wedding day

by don Miguel Ruiz with Janet Mills

Imagine that today is your wedding day, the beginning of a new life for you. You are getting married, and the expectation of joy and happiness is in your heart. Imagine that you are the bride, God is the groom, and you are ready to live ...

Stop trying to read minds

Don Miguel Ruiz, author of The Four Agreements, sits down with Oprah to share his thoughts on the third agreement: Don’t make assumptions. All the sadness and drama you have lived in your life is rooted in making assumptions and taking things personally. Find out...

The Four Agreements – Lesson 6 of 10 – Words and Agreements: The Art of Humans

In this video from The Four Agreements Online Course, the objective is to become aware that every human is an artist, and our greatest art is the use of a language to create an entire virtual reality within our mind. Life creates what is real...

Why You Should Not Take Anything Personally

In this short video, don Jose Ruiz sits down with Vishen Lakhiani and shares some advice about not taking anything personally.


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